Your Best Life
The Cost of Wasting Time
If you had to write your own eulogy to be read at the end of your long life, what would you want to say?
Would you fill it with work accomplishments? With remembrances of fantastic vacations? With stories of great friends and family? Would it be happy and joyous, or would it be filled with regrets of wasted time and wasted opportunities?
Using an average of 75 years, we have approximately 27,400 days to live our best life. If you consider that a third of that time is reserved for sleeping, you have roughly 18,300 days to create and live your reality.
Do you live life fully? Do you make it a point to be aware of and thankful for each moment? Do you value your time? Or do you waste those precious moments with activities that don’t serve you?
What activities do you regularly waste time on? Watching TV? Playing games on your phone? Staying in a dead-end job that doesn’t fulfill you? What about these time-wasters:
- Allowing yourself to become surrounded by negative people who suck the happiness out of the room. Maybe your time would be better served by spending less time with toxic people. When all of that negative energy isn’t taking up space around you, you free up space to let positivity and joy into your life.
- Complaining about things you have no control over. Take control of what you can to make your life better, but stop complaining and worrying about those things outside your control. Spinning your wheels won’t move you forward, and won’t improve your life.
- Being afraid (or too independent) to ask for help when you need it. If you know help is available but you don’t ask for it, you can create feelings of isolation and aloneness. You slow down your progress. And you deny someone the joy of helping someone else – you!
- Chasing success, money, or happiness of the moment, rather than moving toward your ideal life. Do you know what you want? Have you decided what your ideal future looks like? Are you living your life on purpose, or just flowing along someone else’s river? Are you taking active steps to build your perfect future, or wasting precious moments?
- Letting someone else dictate how you live your life. Are you living someone else’s dream? Are you taking actions that lead you toward someone else’s dream, or toward your own?
Are you living your best life? Isn’t it time you made it a priority? You – and your family – will be glad you did.
Brain Fog
Ever been working and it feels like you are having to fight through cobwebs to get your thoughts straight? Do you find it difficult to concentrate or focus for extended time periods? You may have brain fog, which can negatively impact your life, your productivity, and your ability to focus.
So, what causes this, and what can you do about it? Let’s find out.
What is Brain Fog?
Brain fog is essentially a slowing or impairment of the cognitive functions that govern your ability to plan, organize, remember, and solve problems. Many times brain fog is the result of lifestyle and dietary choices, which lead to imbalances in hormones and nutrient levels.
But more and more, my clients are experiencing brain fog as a result of prescribed medication.
You could consider brain fog to be the opposite of feeling motivated, level-headed, and calm. When your brain is foggy, you may feel somewhat confused, disoriented, or forgetful. You may experience balance issues, and have problems making decisions.
When your thoughts are slow or hazy to come together, or when you can’t seem to concentrate, you may be experiencing brain fog. In more severe instances, brain fog can lead to feelings of depression and unhappiness as you seem to lose your ability to control your world or find inspiration in life.
Causes of Brain Fog and How to Address Them
Lack of sleep is a common cause of short-term fogginess. When you don’t get enough sleep, your brain cannot properly restore neural connectivity, which regulates memory and learning. Chronic sleep deprivation can impair motor functions and the ability to reason in dramatic ways. So if you’re feeling foggy, examine your sleep habits and make adjustments that will give you at least seven hours of rest each night.
Dehydration can also be a culprit. Water is a great conductor of electricity. Since your brain is nearly three-quarters water, a ‘water shortage’ can have a significant effect. Even just a small amount of dehydration can lead to confusion, impaired mental performance, and disorientation. Be sure you are drinking plenty of liquids, especially water, throughout your day to stave off the mental fog.
Poor eating habits can make it hard to concentrate or think clearly. Not only does your brain need energy to work well, the micro-nutrients in your food supply essential fatty acids, amino acids, andother necessary compounds to your brain cells.
Eating too many refined carbohydrates and not enough fruits, vegetables, and lean proteins can leave your body and brain feeling sluggish. Focus on improving your diet and eating lots of whole foods that are primarily plant- based to help give your body and brain the nutrients they need to function at an optimal level.
Other factors that can contribute to mental fog include stress, inactivity, changes in your hormone levels, taking certain types of medications, and various medical conditions. Making changes to your diet and lifestyle to help lower stress, balance your hormones, and reduce your need for medications known to cause brain fog can all help you feel more mentally alert and engaged.
Certain medical conditions can cause severe or chronic brain fog, including Alzheimer’s, anemia, diabetes, migraines, and autoimmune disorders. If you suspect you have any of these, you should talk to your doctor about any other symptoms you may have.
Other things you can do to help clear your mind and refocus when brain fog is getting in the way of your productivity include taking a brisk walk, spending time out in the sunshine, clearing away any clutter that may be distracting you, engaging in a mentally stimulating conversation or activity with someone else, or changing your environment.
Final Thoughts
Clearing away the fog can be simple matter of eating better, getting more sleep, and drinking plenty of water. When you need a quick pick-me-up in your day, it’s good to challenge your mind to something new or different for a short period.
Everyone’s situation is different. What works for one person may not work for someone else, so it’s important to narrow down your specific issue and find out what’s causing or exacerbating your situation. Find some balancing strategies that work for you. Work on recognizing when you start to feel foggy, and be proactive to address it before it becomes a real problem.
If you know how to MUSCLE TEST, you can actually ask your body what might be contributing to your brain fog. Is it a certain food/ingredient that your system can’t process well? Is it a medication or supplement that isn’t reacting well with your body chemistry? Do you need to drink more water? Are you drinking the right type of water to meet your body’s needs? Is your body absorbing the water you are providing? You might be surprised by what your body tells you when you ask targeted questions.
If you have not mastered the art of MUSCLE TESTING – and I suggest you do – get on my calendar. We can test to find contributing factors that may be negatively impacting your ability to think clearly, retain information, make decisions, and lead your best life.
Benefits of Creating a Healthy Morning Routine
Do you have a daily morning ritual that you consistently follow each day? How you choose to start your day may hold the key to living a healthy, productive, and prosperous life.
Morning rituals have a way of setting the tone for the rest of your day. Wake up late, and you could find yourself running from one thing to the next to catch up. Toss and turn all night, and you might find yourself lagging, irritable, and exhausted. To avoid these types of scenarios, it is genuinely in our best interest to establish a healthy morning routine.
Routines are a chronological flow of events that we regularly execute. In simple terms, think of your daily routine as being a series of those common actions that you perform at the same time every day. Here are five benefits of creating a healthy morning routine.
Improve Your Stress Levels
Establishing a morning set of routines can do wonders for your stress levels. Morning exercise can have a powerful impact on your mind and body. Although morning exercise has a reputation for boosting your metabolism and burning calories, one of the most significant impacts it can have on your mind and body is the reduction of symptoms associated with stress. Exercise can reverse common negative side effects that accompany stress such as fatigue, pain, and the simple capacity to focus. Consistently including exercise in your morning routine can help to improve your mood and reduce stress.
Opportunity for Positivity
Establishing a healthy morning routine can place you on the path to positivity. Do not underestimate the significance of living in positivity. Positivity not only reduces stress levels but, according to the Mayo Clinic, researchers have found that positive thinking increases your lifespan, improves your cardiac health, enhances immunity levels, and promotes a higher quality of physical and mental well-being. What you do every morning can have a positive or a detrimental impact on your ability to practice positivity throughout the day. Exercise and the practice of meditation at the start of your day to reflect or bring about self-awareness can deliver a healthy abundance of positive vibes.
Mental Wellness
Morning routines have a magical way of also helping us to achieve a sense of mental wellness. They set the tone of normalcy. We know what to expect, and generally, at the end of our repetitive behaviors, there is some degree of a reward.
A Sense of Order
Some people function best when there is a sense of order in their lives. Establishing a morning routine can set you up for a great deal of organization for your day. That is not to say that it will serve as a protective force field against that thing called life that is guaranteed to disrupt your best-laid plans, but under what you may deem to be ordinary circumstances, a daily routine will ensure that the small things are not a distraction.
Productivity
Finally, a healthy morning routine gives us the immediate gratification of accomplishment. We can carry that feeling into the day, motivating us to conquer the remaining tasks that lie ahead of us for the day. Morning rituals can help to keep procrastination at bay. You can tackle complex items if you plan and leverage morning hours to get it done.
Developing a Morning Routine
Are you looking to establish a true morning routine? Don’t panic. Here are few tips to get you going.
- 1. Drink a glass or 12 oz bottle of water upon waking up to hydrate your body after a long night’s rest.
- 2. Meditate for 15 minutes while lying in your bed.
- 3. Indulge in 15 to 30 minutes of exercise.
- 4. Take a shower to soothe your muscles.
- 5. Eat breakfast.
- 6. Engage in positive thinking.
- 7. Focus on 3 things you are grateful for.
In summary, establishing a healthy morning routine can prove beneficial physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Chronic Stress
Alternative Treatments for Chronic Stress
Stress is an everyday word that you can encounter too often in this busy, fast-moving world. While a week’s worth of stress may easily be relieved after a Friday night with friends, stress over long periods of time can result into a wide array of conditions, encompassing physical, mental, and behavioral aspects.
Stress is the body’s response to the pressure perceived from our surroundings. While a small daily dose of stress might be normal, exposure to excessive stress for a prolonged period can lead to more serious diseases and behavioral disorders.
Chronic stress is one of the known culprits for developing anxiety, depression, asthma, heart issues, diabetes, and even for premature death.
Conventional versus Alternative Treatment
Conventional medicine often focuses on treating the mind and the body separately. But in most recent studies, more scientific evidence shows the interconnection between the body and the mind through certain metabolic, hormonal, and biochemical changes that the body undergoes when it is under stress.
On the other hand, proponents of alternative treatments have long since believed that the body reacts differently when the mind and body are in a state of imbalance.
Primarily, the focus of alternative medicine is to treat the body and the mind as a whole, creating a unified balance that promotes relaxation and reduces stress.
All Natural Methods to Relieve Stress
Aromatherapy
Ever heard of lavender and bergamot? These are just two of some popular essential oils that are known for producing aromas found to be effective in relieving stress and muscle tension. Other extracts from certain plants and flowers can bring this wonderful effect to anyone who has inhaled the scent. For an even better result, combine aromatherapy with massage.
Massage
Swedish, Shiatsu, Thai – these are just some of the most popular massage techniques that are used worldwide. In general, massage therapy helps relaxes the muscles and improve blood circulation. This not only reduces stress levels, but alleviates pain as well.
You can go from gentle to deep tissue massages, depending on your tolerance. However, if you suffer from any musculoskeletal condition, make sure you to seek your doctor’s advice first to ask if massage is appropriate for you.
Meditation
Meditation is an ancient practice in Asia that was used to maintain peace and tranquility. It offers a wide range of physical, emotional, and mental benefits, including the relief of stress.
Meditation involves different principles and practices, but commonly involves deep breathing exercises and repeating positive thoughts mentally.
Aside from helping the person achieve a calm state of mind, the deep breathing exercises also offer added benefits such as increasing the intake of oxygen-rich air. And oxygen feeds the cells, thereby aiding in healing of the body and mind.
Yoga
Yoga is sometimes considered as a form of meditation and vice versa. The discipline combines physical and mental aspects to control stress, involving specific poses and controlled breathing aimed at unifying the body, mind, and spirit.
Just like meditational practices, yoga can relieve and prevent chronic stress through relaxation techniques.
Acupressure and Acupuncture
These two ancient Chinese arts of healing are based on the concept of life energy or “chi”, which stimulates the body’s own healing ability. Any malady that the body acquires is attributed to the interruption in the flow of chi, when the body’s natural pathways are blocked.
Acupressure and acupuncture are aimed at freeing the pathways from these blocks by working on certain points. Whereas acupressure uses finger pressures on those points, acupuncture employs insertion of very fine needles through the skin on the same points.
Hypnotherapy
Through hypnosis, the power of the unconscious mind is unlocked, which in turn offers relaxation and a renewed, positive outlook that combats stress.
Final Thoughts
Every person develops their own unique way to cope with stress, and alternative treatments only present a few of these options. It is best to engage in a practice that you enjoy and can commit to in order to see long-term results. Finding the source of the stress by utilizing intuition and gentle healing techniques can create a new reality. Book a session and explore your current reality so you can expedite the creation of a new you.
Adrenal Fatigue
,5 Symptoms of Adrenal Fatigue
With the complex lives we lead today, more and more people are suffering from stress-related conditions. The negative impact of stress can affect many areas of the body. One area in particular that can be adversely affected is the adrenal glands.
The adrenal glands are located near the kidneys and produce the hormones that are needed for the body to function properly. Stress adversely affects these glands because when the body is under severe stress the glands start producing more hormones to help the body cope. This is the classic ‘fight or flight’ response. The main stress hormone produced is cortisol, which regulates metabolism.
Of course, in some circumstances a stress response is needed. But when stress is experienced over a long period of time, these glands weaken. The result is adrenal fatigue. So what are the symptoms of adrenal fatigue?
5 Symptoms of Adrenal Fatigue
1 Excessive, unexplained tiredness. Adrenal fatigue makes a person very tired. This is because under stress the hormone levels are elevated, making it harder to sleep. Over time, the body’s cortisol levels are affected and this leads to the body being in an almost permanent state of alertness. All of this can affect a person’s ability to fall asleep or stay asleep for the recommended 8 hours per night.
2 Cravings for salty or sugary foods. One way that adrenal fatigue affects the body is to lower the blood sugar level. When this happens, cravings for energy foods increase. Foods high in sugar are comfort foods, and stress can cause a person to increase the intake of sugar-high foods.
Adrenal fatigue can also result in cravings for salty foods. This is because the adrenal glands affect how the kidneys regulate mineral fluctuations. When we suffer from fatigue, the body releases more minerals in the urine, which can increase the desire for salty snacks.
3 Heightened energy in the evenings. An adrenal fatigue sufferer could find that she is tired all day but gets a burst of energy later in the evening. Usually cortisol reaches a peak in late morning and then reduces during the day.
4 Difficulty in handling stress. The normal body’s response to stress is to release specific hormones so that stress can be handled effectively. The three specific hormones are cortisol, adrenaline, norepinephrine. Knowing how these affect the body helps us understand the relationship to stress.
Cortisol. Gives the body extra energy to cope with the stress, it increases memory function and lowers sensitivity to pain. However, the body needs a rest period after cortisol has been released in a stress-related situation. If a person is suffering, from adrenal fatigue rarely gets to have the ‘rest period’, over time less and less cortisol is produced.
Adrenaline. Probably the most well-known stress response hormone. This gives us the initial burst of energy needed to respond to stress. Once again, adrenal fatigue will affect the amount of this hormone and therefore the response to stress is reduced.
Norepinephrine. This hormone helps the brain to focus on the stress. Without this active hormone, the response to stress could be described as lethargic.
5 More infections. Cortisol helps to regulate the immune system in the body and cortisol works as an anti-inflammatory. Too much cortisol over an extended period of time hinders the response of the immune system and this can result in an increased number of infections throughout the year. On the other hand, if the adrenal glands are so weakened that they produce too little cortisol, then the body’s response is to over-react to infections – resulting in certain autoimmune disorders.
Final Thoughts
If you are living in a perpetual state of stress, get on my calendar so we can explore ways to bring down your stress levels. We may find some simple steps you can take without major disruptions to your life that will allow you to bring your body back in balance and allow it to come back to its normal state of being.