If you had to write your own eulogy to be read at the end of your long life, what would you want to say?
Would you fill it with work accomplishments? With remembrances of fantastic vacations? With stories of great friends and family? Would it be happy and joyous, or would it be filled with regrets of wasted time and wasted opportunities?
Using an average of 75 years, we have approximately 27,400 days to live our best life. If you consider that a third of that time is reserved for sleeping, you have roughly 18,300 days to create and live your reality.
Do you live life fully? Do you make it a point to be aware of and thankful for each moment? Do you value your time? Or do you waste those precious moments with activities that don’t serve you?
What activities do you regularly waste time on? Watching TV? Playing games on your phone? Staying in a dead-end job that doesn’t fulfill you? What about these time-wasters:
- Allowing yourself to become surrounded by negative people who suck the happiness out of the room. Maybe your time would be better served by spending less time with toxic people. When all of that negative energy isn’t taking up space around you, you free up space to let positivity and joy into your life.
- Complaining about things you have no control over. Take control of what you can to make your life better, but stop complaining and worrying about those things outside your control. Spinning your wheels won’t move you forward, and won’t improve your life.
- Being afraid (or too independent) to ask for help when you need it. If you know help is available but you don’t ask for it, you can create feelings of isolation and aloneness. You slow down your progress. And you deny someone the joy of helping someone else – you!
- Chasing success, money, or happiness of the moment, rather than moving toward your ideal life. Do you know what you want? Have you decided what your ideal future looks like? Are you living your life on purpose, or just flowing along someone else’s river? Are you taking active steps to build your perfect future, or wasting precious moments?
- Letting someone else dictate how you live your life. Are you living someone else’s dream? Are you taking actions that lead you toward someone else’s dream, or toward your own?
Are you living your best life? Isn’t it time you made it a priority? You – and your family – will be glad you did.